My brother moved to Hawaii in 2001. He tells many stories of people and friends who moved there, including his own ventures. He says that Pelé has a way of initiating newcomers through a deeply intense spiritual transformation process. Most don't last. He said of all his friends who moved there, only one actually stayed, most left within months, all lasted less than a year. He also says that going through that initiation was the greatest spiritual process of his life, and he wouldn't trade it for anything.
I would have to say that my 10 months have been intense, quite the initiation. I can relate to all of that and experiencing the most of the intensity this past month. I am feeling ready for all that February has to offer and do feel is a process of walking through the fire this month. I love that you shared this and thank you. Which island is your brother on?
my brother was on Maui. He moved back when his son started kindergarten so that he could raise him closer to family and in a better school system. He is Maui through and through though. I suspect the islands will call him back one day.
Alicia, what a beautifully raw and courageous reflection on transformation! Stepping into new chapters, especially ones where the old identity no longer fits, is both thrilling and daunting. Your honesty about the uncertainty of it all feels so freeing—because we don’t have to have it all figured out to embrace the journey ahead. The shedding of old stories and roles is such a powerful act of self-liberation. I admire your commitment to embracing all of yourself—joy, frustration, uncertainty, and all. Here’s to shedding what no longer serves and making space for the new, messy, beautiful chapters waiting to unfold. Thank you for sharing your heart with such openness!
Thank you for seeing my heart and all of your comments and reflections. Since I have started writing and sharing on here and writing my book, I just don't any other way to show up but in my truths and vulnerability. It feels good, like my path, and liberating. Thank you so much for seeing all of that.
That’s so beautiful to hear Alicia. There’s something so powerful about showing up in your truth—it’s freeing, and it resonates deeply with others. I’m really glad you’ve found that space for yourself in your writing. Keep going, it’s truly a gift. ❤️
What an adventure you’re on. This next phase of your journey through the mother is an opportunity to dance along with the crones. To understand what it looks like to be crone while letting go of the mother. This phase you’re stepping into on your journey to crone is one that is not spoken of as men have done all they can to prolong women’s ability to create life and wipe out the beautiful of women’s transformations. To grow old as a woman in today’s society is a curse. I just started reading Hagitude by Sharon Blackie. I think it would be a good read for you at this time.
My brother moved to Hawaii in 2001. He tells many stories of people and friends who moved there, including his own ventures. He says that Pelé has a way of initiating newcomers through a deeply intense spiritual transformation process. Most don't last. He said of all his friends who moved there, only one actually stayed, most left within months, all lasted less than a year. He also says that going through that initiation was the greatest spiritual process of his life, and he wouldn't trade it for anything.
I would have to say that my 10 months have been intense, quite the initiation. I can relate to all of that and experiencing the most of the intensity this past month. I am feeling ready for all that February has to offer and do feel is a process of walking through the fire this month. I love that you shared this and thank you. Which island is your brother on?
my brother was on Maui. He moved back when his son started kindergarten so that he could raise him closer to family and in a better school system. He is Maui through and through though. I suspect the islands will call him back one day.
Alicia, what a beautifully raw and courageous reflection on transformation! Stepping into new chapters, especially ones where the old identity no longer fits, is both thrilling and daunting. Your honesty about the uncertainty of it all feels so freeing—because we don’t have to have it all figured out to embrace the journey ahead. The shedding of old stories and roles is such a powerful act of self-liberation. I admire your commitment to embracing all of yourself—joy, frustration, uncertainty, and all. Here’s to shedding what no longer serves and making space for the new, messy, beautiful chapters waiting to unfold. Thank you for sharing your heart with such openness!
Thank you for seeing my heart and all of your comments and reflections. Since I have started writing and sharing on here and writing my book, I just don't any other way to show up but in my truths and vulnerability. It feels good, like my path, and liberating. Thank you so much for seeing all of that.
That’s so beautiful to hear Alicia. There’s something so powerful about showing up in your truth—it’s freeing, and it resonates deeply with others. I’m really glad you’ve found that space for yourself in your writing. Keep going, it’s truly a gift. ❤️
Let’s toast to that! I feel you on embracing the unknowing.
Yes, a huge surrender to the unknowing!
What an adventure you’re on. This next phase of your journey through the mother is an opportunity to dance along with the crones. To understand what it looks like to be crone while letting go of the mother. This phase you’re stepping into on your journey to crone is one that is not spoken of as men have done all they can to prolong women’s ability to create life and wipe out the beautiful of women’s transformations. To grow old as a woman in today’s society is a curse. I just started reading Hagitude by Sharon Blackie. I think it would be a good read for you at this time.
I will look into the book and thank you for the recommendation. I am embracing and honoring this journey into the crone years!